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Why God Allows Trials in Your Life

Excerpt from Tony Evans’ just-released book, “Between a Rock and a Hard Place”

Every summer I go to the doctor’s office for an annual exam. I sit in his office and he asks me, “Tony, how are you feeling?”

Assuming that it was a good year overall, I answer, “I’m feeling fine.”

But that’s not the end of my appointment. The doctor doesn’t take my word for it and send me home. Instead, he begins a process of prodding and poking to see whether or not I am as fine as I say that I feel.




Of all of the things that my doctor does, the thing that I despise the most is the stress test. He attaches electronic probes all over my body. Then he sticks me on a treadmill. Next, he makes the treadmill go faster and faster up an incline because what he wants to know is the real condition of my heart.

My heart might feel fine to me but at the same time, it might not be fine. The doctor can only determine the strength of my heart when he measures it under stress. So what he does is create a stressful situation where I’m walking for a long period of time, huffing and puffing, climbing a hill that never seems to end.

He’s testing my heart to see whether how I feel is how I really am. Because it’s possible to have good feelings yet still have a bad heart.

Living the Christian life is no different. It’s possible to come to church every week, sing worship songs, memorize Bible verses, serve on a variety of committees, and assume that your heart, faith, and soul are strong. It’s even easy to say things like, “I love you God. God, you are so good. I’ll follow you, God. I’ll do whatever you say.”

But God doesn’t want to just take your word for it. He tests you, and me, because He wants what is best for us. He tests us because He is getting ready to do something amazing in our lives. The way that He tests us is by putting us in a stressful scenario. God puts us on a treadmill. He designs a unique treadmill test to measure and reveal the real condition of our hearts.

Of course, no one likes a trial. No one wakes up in the morning, stretches, and says, “Ah, what a beautiful day for a trial! I think I’d like to have a trial today!” That would be an unusual person who would do something like that. Yet, no matter how much we want to avoid trials in our lives, trials are inevitable. No one is immune to trials.

Trials are adverse circumstances that God allows in our lives to both identify where we are spiritually as well as to prepare us for where He wants us to go.

There is no escaping them. You are in a trial now, you’ve just come out of a trial, or you are getting ready to go into a trial. Trials are unavoidable realities of life.

But even though we all have to experience them, I want to remind you to take comfort in knowing that trials must first pass through God’s hands before reaching us. Nothing comes our way without first having received His divine approval. And in order to get His divine approval, there must be a divine reason for Him to approve it.

tony evansMuch like the stress test my doctor puts me through every summer, God allows trials and tests in our lives in order to reveal where we are along our spiritual journey.

He does this for the purpose of correcting whatever happens to be wrong, revealing whatever needs to be revealed, and strengthening whatever seems to be weak so that we might move on to what He has in store for us.

by Tony Evans

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Christian Marriage – 7 Tips to Save and Restore

by Daniel E. Stone

A good Christian marriage is not immune to marital problems. You can read all about it in various books. But most of us also know it from our personal experiences.

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As Christians, we are called to be an example to the world of how a marriage should be, how we should fix problems within a Christian marriage.

My wife and I have experienced some of the classic problems in our Christian marriage, but at one point we hit rock-bottom with marital problems, relationship problems, and sexuality problems.

With much prayer, dedication, and many books and seminars on how to save and fix it, we have learned some simple guidelines and tips to save and restore Christian marriages that we always share with Christian couples we provide counsel to.

Here are 7 Tips to Save and Restore Your Christian Marriage

1. Pray. What else will make your Christian marriage any different from any other troubled marriage? The average marriage has less than a 50% chance of success.

2. Tell your spouse that you will never give up on fixing your troubled marriage, the most esteemed christian relationship.

3. Find an accountability partner of the same gender to confide in about your problems with your marriage, sexuality, and communication. He or she should be someone who will work with you to save and restore your marriage, the Christian way.

4. Make a list and check it twice. You are most likely equally to blame for the problems in your marriage, and being in a Christian marriage means being completely dedicated to it. You should make a list of ways that you know you have contributed to the troubled marriage, whether it is financial problems, sexual problems, or interpersonal problems. This is a great way to get some communication and healing started.

5. Stop fighting with your spouse, it only leads to more problems in your marriage, a marriage that is Christian and should be an example to the world. Even if your spouse tries to fight, you must be committed to saving and restoring your marriage with your soul mate.

6. It doesn’t always take two. We have spoke to many partners in Christian marriages who tell us their spouse is done trying to fix their relationship. They want to give up. The truth is, that in a Christian marriage you are tied together in a spiritual way, despite marital problems and an overall troubled relationship. You have to be willing to save and restore your marriage even when your spouse doesn’t want to keep trying to fix your relationship and end the marital problems.

7. Identify the specific problems in your Christian union. You have to do more. There is no way reading an article can save and restore your Christian marriage. You need to look for additional tools to fix your relationship problems. Find and target specific areas of problems in your relationship, like sexuality or finances, and find tools to fix them. When you have identified specific areas, look for the best book or forum about that specific topic and never give up.

You CAN save and restore your Christian marriage!

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Christian Debt Relief – New Christian Finance

Christian debt relief – God’s will for you Is financial freedom… So why does it seem so hard for Christians to get ahead?

Christian financial freedom is about more than just giving.

For the first time… get practical answers and methods for you to follow a complete home study course that covers everything you need to know about:

* Practical Steps for Any Christian To Achieve Financial Freedom

* God’s Step-By-Step Plan for You to Become Totally Debt Free Including Your Mortgage

* How to Renew Your Mind to See Money, Tithing, and Giving From God’s Viewpoint

* Becoming Wealthy God’s Way – Christian Entrepreneurial Techniques for Success

* How Anyone Can Earn a Part-Time or Even a Full-Time Income on the Internet

* The Internet Lifestyle Plan – How to Work Once and Get Paid On It Forever

Check out the complete Christian debt relief course from Terry Dean, which is packed with practical action steps and guidance to have you on the way to financial freedom

Who is Terry Dean?

Terry Dean went from earning $8 an hour as a pizza delivery driver to earning a high six figure online income without any employees. He went full-time online way back in 1996…before many people had even heard of the Internet.

He earned enough to sell his primary business and and retire from online marketing in 2004. His Netbreakthroughs membership site was like a “who’s who” of Internet marketing experts and gurus.

As a Christian debt relief is attainable!

You Can Attain Christian Financial Freedom… See How!

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A short video interview with Bob Brooks and Jonathan Godbey two of the founders of the Christian Finance Faculty Association from their inaugural meeting at the 2009 FMA conference in Reno (ok Sparks) Nevada. A copy of their presentation in PDF format is available here: www.frmllc.biz

You Can Attain Christian Financial Freedom… See How!

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Easy Ways To A Better Life

by Steven Gillman

Want a better life? Big changes are difficult, and take time, but there are many easy steps you can take right now. Take many steps, even small ones, and pretty soon you’re getting somewhere.

A Better Life Today

It’s easy just to look, right? Start looking for specific ways to make your life better, and to improve yourself. Even if you don’t accomplish anything immediately, you are preparing yourself. Thinking about change sets your mind and your motivation in motion.

You’re not looking for an excuse to avoid difficult tasks, but you wouldn’t expect to quit cigarettes, alcohol, caffeine and complaining all at once, right? Just make things better today, in any small way. Seeing results will motivate you for the more difficult steps. Consider some of the following simple actions.

1. Write down some things you’d like to change. This makes the possibility more real, and gets your mind working. Eventually you can make this “wish list” into real goals, with a specific plan.

2. Close your eyes and breath deeply through your nose, whenever you feel stressed. Stress is one of the biggest impediments to a better life. Simple stress-manangemnet techniques like this can help a lot, if you make them a habit.

3. List the good things you’ve got. This may seem trite, but a good mood makes life better. Ever buy a van and start seeing vans everywhere? The same thing happens when you buy an idea. Imagine how it will affect your frame of mind to start seeing good things everywhere.

I could go on, but I don’t know what your goals and needs are. The point here is to get you thinking, and then taking whatever actions you can. If you thought about the whole process, you might never build a house, but it’s easy to nail one board in place, right? (And then one more, and one more…)

Steve Gillman. For more on Creative Problem Solving, check out the new ebook, “Problem Solving Power” at: http://www.IncreaseBrainPower.com/problem-solving-book.html

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